In Part 1 of this series, we talked about reconnecting with yourself, because if you’re running on fumes, everyone else pays. In Part 2, we focused on your partner, because neglected relationships eventually break. In Part 3, we zeroed in on your kids – because they deserve more than the after-hours version of Dad.
Now, in Part 4, we’re tackling friendships – the piece most entrepreneurs and founders quietly let die. These entrepreneur friendship tips could change your life!
You’re crushing revenue targets, juggling family life like a circus seal, and pretending you love every 6 a.m. flight. But when the dust settles, who’s left to grab a beer with you (besides your dog, who’s frankly demanding overtime treats)?
Busy as you are, real friendships slip through the cracks faster than your unread Slack notifications. Need proof? Thirty years ago, 55% of men had six or more close friends. Today, that’s slipped to 27%-and 15% admit they’ve got exactly zero. That’s a whole lot of entrepreneurs eating problems-for-one. (American Survey Center)
Here are 10 entrepreneur friendship tips to stack your circle with actual humans, not just LinkedIn headshots.
10 Friendship Tips for Entrepreneurs
1. Calendar the hang. Block “Bro Time” like payroll. If your assistant asks, call it a “strategic alliance meeting.” Nobody cancels payroll.
2. Lead with the dents, not the trophies. Bonding over perfect KPIs is boring. Show the scar-failed launch, teenage drama, weird rash (okay, maybe not the rash). Vulnerability’s a magnet.
3. Follow up like you chase prospects. You’ll hound a lead for 18 months, but can’t text Dave back? C’mon. Quick “Yo, coffee Tuesday?” keeps the line warm.
4. Run a two-seat dinner. Skip the 12-person steakhouse flex. Invite one guy for tacos. Cheaper, louder laughter, zero network-y small talk.
5. Join a cause-driven crew. Men bond on mission. Charity board, pick-up hockey, The Foundry (shameless plug). Purpose > polite chit-chat.
6. Ask for warm intros. Your accountant knows guys who also hate small talk. Tell her you’re shopping for friends, and she might be weirdly thrilled to play matchmaker.
7. Sweat together. Burpees reveal character faster than bourbon. Sign up for a trail run or boxing class. Pain speeds up trust.
8. Host the “Bacon & Bullsh*t Breakfast.” Monthly, no agenda, first Friday of the month. You provide coffee and greasy goodness; conversation happens on its own.
9. Kill the scoreboard. If you’re tallying who bought the last pint, you’re not friends. You’re accountants. Give first, expect nada, repeat.
10. Keep the spark alive. Random voice memos, dumb memes, birthday beers. Tiny taps say, “I’m here,” which beats the annual “We should grab lunch” lie.
Why entrepreneurs need real friendships
Entrepreneurs often believe their partner or kids should meet every emotional need. But without brotherhood, isolation creeps in, and loneliness eats leaders alive. These entrepreneur friendship tips aren’t fluff; they’re lifelines. Real friends sharpen you, ground you, and remind you there’s more to life than the next revenue milestone.
Pick one, start today, and watch your circle tighten faster than your jeans after Thanksgiving.
CTA / Series Close-Out:
This wraps up our 4-part series on reconnection for entrepreneurs and founders:
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Part 1: Reconnecting with Yourself
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Part 2: Reconnecting with Your Partner
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Part 3: Reconnecting with Your Kids
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Part 4: Reconnecting with Your Friends (this post)
Want a space where these conversations don’t end? That’s what we’re building inside The Foundry – a brotherhood of male leaders who refuse to do life and business alone.
Frequently asked questions
Q: Why do entrepreneurs struggle to make friends?
A: Founders often sacrifice social life for business growth, leaving friendships neglected until loneliness hits.
Q: What are the best entrepreneur friendship tips?
A: Calendar hangs, stay vulnerable, join purpose-driven groups, and sweat together. Consistency beats waiting for “someday.”
Q: Can entrepreneurs really balance business and friendships?
A: Yes-when friendships are scheduled and prioritized like business commitments, they thrive alongside revenue growth.
Q: Where can entrepreneurs find community?
A: The Foundry is built for men who want real brotherhood, accountability, and friendships that last.

Eric Deschamps
Creator of The Foundry and Master Coach at rhapsodystrategies.com
Eric Deschamps helps high-performing men rebuild their lives from the inside out. The Foundry isn’t for every man. It’s for the ones ready to get honest, go deep, and do the work. If that’s you, join us here.